The Temporarily Forgotten
“I forgot you were there.” slurred the man with alcohol on his breath. The two cars sat next to the road on this cloudy day. Mom and I were almost home after getting a birthday present for the party that was just about to start.
A light blue truck and a red car that used to have a trunk were all that remained. Sitting in the back seat, I don’t remember much, I think I was in shock. I did need an ace bandage for something. Mom was ok, although I think she needed to wear one of those silly looking neckbraces for awhile.
Looking at that car, I’d say I was lucky. Very lucky. What rips my heart out is that sadly… many are not.
I don’t remember much else. However, I do remember his name…Lee Ray …and that he forgot we were there.
What a sad statement…”I forgot you were there.” Fortunately for him, we were still there after he hit us. I can’t imagine telling that to a family who has lost loved ones from a drunk driving incident.
“Try forgetting them now.”
Today, I forgive Lee Ray. I don’t think we ever heard of him again. I pray that he got his life in order. I hope that he did not forget anyone else.
Unfortunately, a situation like this happens each day. Almost every half hour, a person will lose their life in a drunk driving accident in America.
For all those who have lost a loved one to this…we pray for you. For all those who will get behind the wheel drunk in the next half and hour…we pray for you.
May God protect the temporarily forgotten and frustrate the keys of the forgetter. May their keys never make it to the ignition.
In 2004, there was a 2% decline of drunk driving fatalities over 2003. (I wrote this in 2005)
Please join me in praying this very moment… a prayer that would bring even more decline of these numbers.
It’s 5:37…another half an hour just elapsed…23 minutes till the next.
Thanks for your prayers!
Please be careful! May your holidays be safe and happy!
* I wrote this a few years ago in remembrance of the many who sadly… did not survive. I like to believe that someday wisdom, discipline, and responsible choices will win out. But, for that, we all have a role to teach, to hold accountable, to love, and support.